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So you're in a relationship and your partner starts nagging. She tells you that you just don't understand her, and that she really wishes that you would just do more "little things."
It's not the big things that make her happy; it's paying attention to the little details and showing you care that is really meaningful. She doesn't necessarily need lavish gifts -- she needs to know you're thinking about her.
Here are some ideas to get you started doing these "little things" she really wants:
1. Rub her feet instead of asking her if she wants you to rub her feet. Make it look like you want to do it.
2. Make her dinner one night. Don't ask her if she wants you to make dinner. Make her dinner before she gets home.
3. Light a candle so that she arrives home to a nice environment instead of coming home to the glaring lights of the television and other things.
4. Send her a text in the middle of the day telling her "I miss your smile from this morning" or "Last night was amazing!" or "The conversation we had last night was great."
5. Send an eCard in the middle of the day... something cute to remind her how much you really care about her.
6. If she's going on a business trip, offer to drive her to the airport or pick her up to make her life that much easier.
7. Let her have control of the remote control. Don't monopolize it for a change. Just give it to her and let her actually sit there and enjoying watching one of her shows. Then you can share one of her interests by watching it with her.
8. Offer to iron one of her shirts or take her clothes to the dry cleaner.
9. Clean up the bathroom without being asked. Don't just sit there and ignore the mess around the toilet. If you know it drives her crazy to see water splashed all around the sink, dry that area after you use it.
10. If you work out together, enjoy it with her instead of rushing through your own workout and then not letting her workout at the same time.
11. Take a shower together, then wash her hair, scrub her back, and give her a spa treatment. Do this and enjoy it!
12. The next time she gives you a massage, give her a massage the next day. Offer it! Don't just say you'll give her a massage...do it!
13. Surprise her by making plans. Tell her, "We're going out tonight honey." You can even just go out for a drink or dinner somewhere. It's taking the initiative that's important.
14. Decide on and set aside one night a week as date night. Have a date like when you first started dating.
15. Call her in the middle of the day and just say hello. Don't wait for her to call you.
It can be simple to keep her satisfied. It's not necessarily about what you give her financially or what gifts you give her. That's a cop out. It's the little things. The guy who makes the biggest mistake is the one who ignores their significant other then all of a sudden give them an expensive gift to make up for it. That doesn't make up for it at all.
Adopted from http://dating.personals.yahoo.com/single
Adopted from http://dating.personals.yahoo.com/single
Capricorn - Your Love Profile |
 Your positive traits: You are serious about relationships and ready for a commitment. You tend to help your partner attain the success they dream of. You are a rock. Relationship problems don't seem to phase you. Your negative traits: Sometimes it's very hard for you to accept your partner's past. You are emotionally reserved, and difficult to connect with. You expect your partner to take care of you - and make cheat if they do not Your ideal partner: Is incredibly powerful and well respected. Is often older than you - and could be a superior at work. Has a good amount of money... or the ability to be rich someday. Your dating style: Practical. A "get to know each other" coffee date is just fine by you. Your seduction style: Bossy - you like to be the one in charge in the bedroom. Slow and patient. You know that good sex takes time. Calculating. You'll use sex to get ahead, if necessary. Tips for the future: Open up. A little emotional expression is a good thing in relationships. Leap before you look. You don't have to run a cost benefit sheet on everyone you date. Enjoy the now. No need to worry about marriage on the first few dates. Best color to attract mate: Dark green Best day for a date: Saturday |
Virgo - Your Love Profile |
 Your positive traits: You're incredibly thoughtful and able to give your partner what they need most. You are totally logical. You can deal with problems without involving your emotions. A good work ethic. You'll do whatever it takes (within reason) to make your relationship work. Your negative traits: Sometimes you are so focused on your goals that you let your relationships suffer You tend to be a perfectionist - and expect perfection from your mate as well You are picky. So picky that you rather be single than with someone who has a few minor faults. Your ideal partner: Values success in life as much as you do Fits a checklist of qualities you've been looking for since childhood Like you, is more practical and realistic than romantic Your dating style: Active. You're a bit hyper, so you'd prefer a date that involved rollerblading in the park or hiking. Your seduction style: You may seem a bit shy, but once you open up to someone - you're totally uninhibited You like to set the scene first - candles, music, nice sheets A bit obsessed with cleanliness, you may want to shower first with your love Tips for the future: Soften up a little. Vulnerability is sexy - and feels great over time. Lower your standards a little. Look past a messy desk or someone being five minutes late. Praise your partner more. You make expect them to be successful, but complements are still appreciated. Best color to attract mate: Navy blue Best day for a date: Wednesday |
You Are a Visionary Soul |
 You are a curious person, always in a state of awareness. Connected to all things spiritual, you are very connected to your soul. You are wise and bright: able to reason and be reasonable. Occasionally, you get quite depressed and have dark feelings. You have great vision and can be very insightful. In fact, you are often profound in a way that surprises yourself. Visionary souls like you can be the best type of friend. You are intuitive, understanding, sympathetic, and a good healer. Souls you are most compatible with: Old Soul and Peacemaker Soul |
| - December 26 - | |
You are fun to be with and have a good sense of humor. You are very ambitious and hate it when people try to bring you down. You are logical, social and loyal. |
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Positive Traits: sociable, cooperative, charming, efficient, ambitious | |
Negative Traits: manipulative, shallow, materialistic, greedy, exaggerative | |
'What does your Birthdate mean?' at QuizGalaxy.com | |
7 signs you may have found Mr. or Ms. Right
By Krista Bloom, Ph.D. LCSWIn happy, successful relationships, both partners seem to be on the same page and to really enjoy life together. The more you have in common with the other person on the things that count, the more successful you are likely to be in the relationship. I call this the "compatibility factor." Here are seven forms of compatibility to look for in your valentine.
1. Personality Compatibility. What's inside the person is the most important factor, because that is going to be there always. Decide what personality types you are most attracted to. Many people enjoy a great sense of humor, for example. Others look for someone with certain spiritual values. Find someone you really like and can have fun with. Think about how the two of you will get along down the road. Take your time to get to know someone's true nature, because people often put their best foot forward at first.
2. Chemistry Compatibility. You have to click in the physical department. Being mismatched in this area can lead to resentments and have a long-term effect on your love life together. For example, if one of you believes in PDA (Public Display of Affection) and the other is adamantly against it, that may cause serious problems over time.
3. Communication Compatibility. Are you and your valentine on the same page in terms of communication? See if your conversations flow, and if they are enjoyable for both of you. When you're in love, you may think you have the best conversations, when really one of you is doing all the talking. While you are getting to know each other, keep conversations real and fun. Avoid the temptation to talk about past relationships; it can be a downer and you don't want to turn your date into a support group. Focus on what you enjoy.
4. Friends and Family Compatibility. This comes later, usually after you have been dating for a few months. Do you get along with one another's friends and family, or are there clashes and conflict? If you don't get along with your valentine's inner circle, then the relationship may not work, unless you love the person enough to grin and bear it.
This does not mean that if your valentine's friends and family are not exactly your cup of tea you should dump him or her. Some you will like and others not. Consider how close they live to you and how often you will need to see them before deciding this is a deal breaker.
5. Health and Nutrition Compatibility. Are you a health food nut or a junk food junkie? Are you a speed-walker or a channel surfer? See if your health-related lifestyles match or not. Although this may seem silly, later in life health becomes more of an issue for people.
6. Financial Compatibility. Money is one of the things couples fight about most often. If you share similar financial goals and means, this can be very helpful. Don't be afraid to ask questions about how the person likes to handle their money, especially as you get to know each other well. One question you can ask is what your valentine thinks is the best way to manage income and bills. If you agree, then great. If you need to learn more about finances, take a course and read books and articles on Yahoo! Finance to get your financial health on track.
7. Lifestyle Compatibility. Having common interests can really help in a relationship. If you share a passion for something, you can have even more fun together in your free time. You can also expose each other to new interests, which can be exciting. However, if you absolutely hate sports and he has season tickets to every game in town, this may cause a lifestyle clash.
What if you're not compatible? Sometimes, there are so many clashes in so many areas that the relationship begins to suffer. What can you do if you and your valentine are not compatible? You can:
1. Take an inventory of your relationship. In my book "The Ultimate Compatibility Quiz" you can look more in depth into life's domains -- green flags that bring you together or red flags that pull you apart.
2. Accept things as they are. The main idea is to look for workability, not perfection. We have to let some things go or we'll never be happy in any relationship. Enjoy and appreciate each other for who you are!
3. Change and ask for change. If you are both willing to make changes, be specific and set realistic goals about what you are willing to do and how things could improve between you. Keep the lines of communication open.
It is much more effective to choose a compatible partner in the initial stages of dating than it is to "fix" something that is "broken" later. It's hard to move on, especially if you are already in love and committed. In any relationship, you will need to work on things.
Enjoy the journey; I hope that this will give you a start to know if you have indeed found your Mr. or Ms. Right for you this Valentine's Day!
Adopted from http://dating.personals.yahoo.com/single
Wouldn't it be great if fairy tales came true? Most of us still want and expect to find our Mr. or Ms. Right. The good news is, finding a partner who is perfect for you is a real-life possibility -- and something you can turn into a probability by resetting your expectations. Remembering three simple rules will help you understand the person you are dating, manage your expectations and prevent ugly surprises.
1. Everything you want to know about a person is there for you to see right from the beginning. By being observant, You can realize someone's true nature from the very start. Let's say the person you are dating throws their jacket on the chair when they come into your apartment. As much as that may annoy you, you must understand that is who they are. They are not going to become a neat freak later on. As a matter of fact, the more relaxed they grow to be, the more likely they are to take liberty in throwing their clothes around -- expect to find scattered socks, shoes, even underwear!
2. You cannot change anybody. Try as you might, you can't change anyone. You can, of course, let the person know you are unhappy with the sloppiness, but you cannot expect him or her to change. What you can change is your reaction to their behavior. By seeing someone for who they are and understanding that you cannot change them, you can recognize early on if someone is an appropriate match.
3. There is an "upside" and a "downside" to every trait. You may realize that even though your Mr. Right is a slob, it doesn't mean that you must cast off your otherwise Prince Charming as a toad. Think about the other side to your potential partner's sloppiness. Maybe his carefree attitude towards the proper place of a coat is indicative of his flexible and relaxed nature -- perhaps a trait that is a nice counterbalance to your tendency to get a bit uptight.
Adapted from http://dating.personals.yahoo.com/single
Adapted from http://dating.personals.yahoo.com/single
As the editor of the biggest men's magazine in the world, I am privy to something many women rarely hear - straightforward, uninhibited guy talk.
Don't be so shocked - guys do actually talk, and not just about Tom Brady's quarterback rating. Most women think their man is the strong, silent type (or maybe the oblivious, silent type), and they wonder why he doesn't share his feelings.
But here's the truth: Men do want to open up, about their hopes, their fears, and their passions. Yet put him alone in a room with you, and he often turns into a Sphinx. Why can't he take his eyes off the TV and talk about the state of the relationship, or the finances, or, heck, the backyard landscaping? Why in the world can't he just summarize his day for 10 minutes?
In fact, one in five women say that they typically fight about a man's lack of verbal interaction, and 30 percent of men say their failure to communicate is the source of major conflict in the relationship. Why is it this way?
Here's one answer: Because even men who have feelings to share don't always feel comfortable sharing them with their partner. These are some of the reasons why some men often prefer to zip it, rather than delivering the goods:
Guys Are A Little Intimidated
No question, women are expert communicators. They throw questions like Oprah after her third cup of coffee; they're connecting on all cylinders. And like the divine Ms. W, women bring a lot of skill to their game: A special awareness of the people-scape around them, a keen set of emotions keyed to that awareness, and a rich vocabulary they use to talk about anything at anytime.
And they're always practicing their Q&A skills on their many friends, so they're in top talk mode all the time. Men know this. And they also know that more than one-third of women say that men simply can't relate and don't understand women. The result: Men are afraid of saying too much, because saying the wrong thing may get them into more trouble than Lindsay Lohan as a designated driver.
Guys Need To Decompress
Woman's view: When a man walks in the door, he ought to cough up some of the details about his day. After all, it's been 10 hours since they've communicated, not counting the two IMs, three voice mails, and one actual mid-day conversation.
Man's view: Can I please make a beeline to the bathroom? When men reach home, it's like those ultra-marathoners staggering across the finish line in Death Valley. The last thing they want to do is discuss how bright the sunlight was, and how scarce the water stops were.
Further up on his want-to-do list after arriving home: 14 percent of men want to check email, 12 percent are looking for a little private time in the bathroom, and 10 percent simply want to eat dinner. The common theme here: After they've spent a day serving the needs of others, they want to take care of themselves a little.
So when a man is hit with a demand for conversation so closely after returning from the stressful environment of work, he has only one gear left to shift into, and sometimes it's reverse. He's retreat, retreat, retreat.
Guys Are More Comfortable With Actions Than Feelings
Rather than talking about how he "feels," often a man would rather express his love by changing her oil, or bringing home a flower, or relinquishing control of the remote.
And when men do talk, they'd prefer to talk about actions rather than emotions. For instance, a lot of guys would choose to express their long-range faith in a relationship by talking about next summer's vacation plans, not by launching into a soliloquy about undying love.
Both conversations can mean the same thing (that he plans on sticking around); he just prefers to say it with plane tickets, rather than poetry. It's one of the reasons men are more comfortable talking at work (the practical universe) than they are at home (the castle that emotion built). But you can bring out his great communicator by making him feel more like he's operating in work mode, even when the topic at hand is your love life. Here's an incredible article, "The Home Office," that shows how he can use his best office skills for great success at home.
Guys Don't Want To Be Put On The Spot
When men talk less and women want more, the scenario can escalate. Like when the bad cop is pummeling the reluctant witness, more silence equals more questions. A full 65 percent of men we surveyed recently told us they don't want their partners to ask them more questions about themselves.
It's clear that some men are just plain tired of feeling like they're on the witness stand. They're not necessarily hiding anything; many guys simply prefer not to have to relate confusing feelings that they may not even understand themselves.
An age-old tactic can make things better: Back off a little, give him room to operate in a conversation, and he's more likely to open up. To find out if his lack of communication really does mean that your relationship needs a tune up, take this quick quiz.
Adopted from http://health.yahoo.com/experts/menlove
Don't be so shocked - guys do actually talk, and not just about Tom Brady's quarterback rating. Most women think their man is the strong, silent type (or maybe the oblivious, silent type), and they wonder why he doesn't share his feelings.
But here's the truth: Men do want to open up, about their hopes, their fears, and their passions. Yet put him alone in a room with you, and he often turns into a Sphinx. Why can't he take his eyes off the TV and talk about the state of the relationship, or the finances, or, heck, the backyard landscaping? Why in the world can't he just summarize his day for 10 minutes?
In fact, one in five women say that they typically fight about a man's lack of verbal interaction, and 30 percent of men say their failure to communicate is the source of major conflict in the relationship. Why is it this way?
Here's one answer: Because even men who have feelings to share don't always feel comfortable sharing them with their partner. These are some of the reasons why some men often prefer to zip it, rather than delivering the goods:
Guys Are A Little Intimidated
No question, women are expert communicators. They throw questions like Oprah after her third cup of coffee; they're connecting on all cylinders. And like the divine Ms. W, women bring a lot of skill to their game: A special awareness of the people-scape around them, a keen set of emotions keyed to that awareness, and a rich vocabulary they use to talk about anything at anytime.
And they're always practicing their Q&A skills on their many friends, so they're in top talk mode all the time. Men know this. And they also know that more than one-third of women say that men simply can't relate and don't understand women. The result: Men are afraid of saying too much, because saying the wrong thing may get them into more trouble than Lindsay Lohan as a designated driver.
Guys Need To Decompress
Woman's view: When a man walks in the door, he ought to cough up some of the details about his day. After all, it's been 10 hours since they've communicated, not counting the two IMs, three voice mails, and one actual mid-day conversation.
Man's view: Can I please make a beeline to the bathroom? When men reach home, it's like those ultra-marathoners staggering across the finish line in Death Valley. The last thing they want to do is discuss how bright the sunlight was, and how scarce the water stops were.
Further up on his want-to-do list after arriving home: 14 percent of men want to check email, 12 percent are looking for a little private time in the bathroom, and 10 percent simply want to eat dinner. The common theme here: After they've spent a day serving the needs of others, they want to take care of themselves a little.
So when a man is hit with a demand for conversation so closely after returning from the stressful environment of work, he has only one gear left to shift into, and sometimes it's reverse. He's retreat, retreat, retreat.
Guys Are More Comfortable With Actions Than Feelings
Rather than talking about how he "feels," often a man would rather express his love by changing her oil, or bringing home a flower, or relinquishing control of the remote.
And when men do talk, they'd prefer to talk about actions rather than emotions. For instance, a lot of guys would choose to express their long-range faith in a relationship by talking about next summer's vacation plans, not by launching into a soliloquy about undying love.
Both conversations can mean the same thing (that he plans on sticking around); he just prefers to say it with plane tickets, rather than poetry. It's one of the reasons men are more comfortable talking at work (the practical universe) than they are at home (the castle that emotion built). But you can bring out his great communicator by making him feel more like he's operating in work mode, even when the topic at hand is your love life. Here's an incredible article, "The Home Office," that shows how he can use his best office skills for great success at home.
Guys Don't Want To Be Put On The Spot
When men talk less and women want more, the scenario can escalate. Like when the bad cop is pummeling the reluctant witness, more silence equals more questions. A full 65 percent of men we surveyed recently told us they don't want their partners to ask them more questions about themselves.
It's clear that some men are just plain tired of feeling like they're on the witness stand. They're not necessarily hiding anything; many guys simply prefer not to have to relate confusing feelings that they may not even understand themselves.
An age-old tactic can make things better: Back off a little, give him room to operate in a conversation, and he's more likely to open up. To find out if his lack of communication really does mean that your relationship needs a tune up, take this quick quiz.
Adopted from http://health.yahoo.com/experts/menlove
The glory of friendship is not the outstretched hand, nor the kindly smile, nor the joy of companionship; it is the spiritual inspiration that comes to one when you discover that someone else believes in you and is willing to trust you with a friendship. - Ralph Waldo Emerson, adapted.
All the world's a stage,
And all the men and women merely players;
They have their exits and their entrances,
And one man in his time plays many parts,
His acts being seven ages. At first, the infant,
Mewling and puking in the nurse's arms.
Then the whining schoolboy, with his satchel
And shining morning face, creeping like snail
Unwillingly to school. And then the lover,
Sighing like furnace, with a woeful ballad
Made to his mistress' eyebrow. Then a soldier,
Full of strange oaths and bearded like the pard,
Jealous in honor, sudden and quick in quarrel,
Seeking the bubble reputation
Even in the cannon's mouth. And then the justice,
In fair round belly with good capon lined,
With eyes severe and beard of formal cut,
Full of wise saws and modern instances;
And so he plays his part. The sixth age shifts
Into the lean and slippered pantaloon,
With spectacles on nose and pouch on side;
His youthful hose, well saved, a world too wide
For his shrunk shank, and his big manly voice,
Turning again toward childish treble, pipes
And whistles in his sound. Last scene of all,
That ends this strange eventful history,
Is second childishness and mere oblivion,
Sans teeth, sans eyes, sans taste, sans everything.
William Shakespeare
And all the men and women merely players;
They have their exits and their entrances,
And one man in his time plays many parts,
His acts being seven ages. At first, the infant,
Mewling and puking in the nurse's arms.
Then the whining schoolboy, with his satchel
And shining morning face, creeping like snail
Unwillingly to school. And then the lover,
Sighing like furnace, with a woeful ballad
Made to his mistress' eyebrow. Then a soldier,
Full of strange oaths and bearded like the pard,
Jealous in honor, sudden and quick in quarrel,
Seeking the bubble reputation
Even in the cannon's mouth. And then the justice,
In fair round belly with good capon lined,
With eyes severe and beard of formal cut,
Full of wise saws and modern instances;
And so he plays his part. The sixth age shifts
Into the lean and slippered pantaloon,
With spectacles on nose and pouch on side;
His youthful hose, well saved, a world too wide
For his shrunk shank, and his big manly voice,
Turning again toward childish treble, pipes
And whistles in his sound. Last scene of all,
That ends this strange eventful history,
Is second childishness and mere oblivion,
Sans teeth, sans eyes, sans taste, sans everything.
William Shakespeare
Dance like no one is watching, Love like you'll never be hurt, Sing like no one is listening, Live like it's heaven on earth. - Purkey, William
Work like you don't need the money; dance like no one is watching; sing like no one is listening; love like you've never been hurt; and live every day as if it were your last.
Work like you don't need the money; dance like no one is watching; sing like no one is listening; love like you've never been hurt; and live every day as if it were your last.
| The Keys to Your Heart |
 You are attracted to those who are unbridled, untrammeled, and free. In love, you feel the most alive when your lover is creative and never lets you feel bored. You'd like to your lover to think you are stylish and alluring. You would be forced to break up with someone who was insecure and in constant need of reassurance. Your ideal relationship is lasting. You want a relationship that looks to the future... one you can grow with. Your risk of cheating is zero. You care about society and morality. You would never break a commitment. You think of marriage as something precious. You'll treasure marriage and treat it as sacred. In this moment, you think of love as commitment. Love only works when both people are totally devoted. |
Don't marry the person you think you can live with; marry only the individual you think you can't live without.
-- Author:James C. Dobson
-- Author:James C. Dobson
LANGUAGE | I LOVE YOU | |
| Afrikaans | Ek het jou liefe Ek is lief vir jou | |
| Albanian | te dua te dashuroj | |
| Alentejano | Gosto De Ti, Porra! | |
| Alsacien | Ich hoan dich gear | |
| Amharic | Afekrishalehou | |
| Arabic | Ana Behibak (to a male) Ana Behibek (to a female) Ib'n hebbak. Ana Ba-heb-bak nhebuk Ohiboke (male to female) Ohiboka (female to male) Ohibokoma (male or female to two males or two females) Nohiboke (more than one male or female to female) Nohiboka (male to male or female to male) Nohibokoma (m. to m. or f. to two males or two females) Nohibokom (m. to m. or f. to more than two males) Nohibokon (m. to m. or f. to more than two females) (not standard) Bahibak (female to male) (not standard) Bahibik (male to female) (not standard) Benhibak (more than one male or female to male) (not standard) Benhibik (male to male or female to female) (not standard) Benhibkom (m. to m. or female to more than one male) | |
| Armenian | Siroum em kez | |
| Assamese | Moi tomak bhal pau | |
| Basc | Nere Maitea | |
| Batak | Holong rohangku di ho | |
| Bavarian | I mog di narrisch gern | |
| Bengali | Ami tomAy bhAlobAshi Ami tomake bhalobashi. | |
| Berber | Lakh tirikh | |
| Bicol | Namumutan ta ka | |
| Bolivian | Quechua qanta munani | |
| Bulgarian | Obicham te | |
| Burmese | chit pa de | |
| Cambodian a.k.a. Khmer | Bon sro lanh oon kh_nhaum soro_lahn nhee_ah | |
| Canadian French | Sh'teme (spoken, sounds like this) | |
| Cantonese | Moi oiy neya Ngo oi ney | Chinese |
| Catalan | T'estim (mallorcan) T'estim molt (I love you a lot) T'estime (valencian) T'estimo (catalonian) | |
| Cebuano | Gihigugma ko ikaw. | |
| Chickasaw | chiholloli (first "i" nasalized) | American Indian |
| Chinese | (see the entries for mandarin or cantonese!) | |
| Corsican | Ti tengu cara (to female) Ti tengu caru (to male) | |
| Creole (Haitian) | Mwen renmen ou. The "en" is pronounced as the French "in" nasal sound. The "ou" is pronounced as in the French "ou" or the English "oo". | |
| Croatian & Serbian | Ljubim te "means to kiss you" Ya te volim "I love you" or Volim te "I love you" | |
| Czech | miluji te MILUJU TE! (colloquial form) | |
| Danish | Jeg elsker dig | |
| Dutch | Ik hou van jou Ik ben verliefd op je | |
| Ecuador | Quechua canda munani | |
| English | I love you | |
| Esperanto | Mi amas vin | |
| Estonian | Mina armastan sind Ma armastan sind | |
| Farsi | Tora dust midaram Asheghetam (Persian) doostat dAram | |
| Filipino | Mahal ki ta Iniibig Kita | |
| Finnish | Mina" rakastan sinua | |
| Flemish | Ik zie oe geerne | |
| French | Je t'aime Je t'adore | |
| Friesian | Ik hald fan dei | |
| Gaelic | Ta gra agam ort | |
| German | Ich liebe Dich | |
| Greek | s'ayapo (spoken s'agapo, 3rd letter is lower case'gamma') (old) (Ego) philo su (ego is only needed for emphasis) | |
| Greenlandic | Asavakit | |
| Gujrati | Hoon tane pyar karoochhoon. | |
| Hausa | Ina sonki | |
| Hawaiian | Aloha wau 'ia oe | |
| Hebrew | Ani ohev otach (male to female) Ani ohev otcha (male to male) Ani ohevet otach (female to female) Ani ohevet otcha (female to male) | |
| Hindi | Mai tumase pyar karata hun (male to female) Mai tumase pyar karati hun (female to male) Main Tumse Prem Karta Hoon Mai Tumhe Pyar Karta Hoon Main Tumse Pyar Karta Hoon Mai Tumse Peyar Karta Hnu Mai tumse pyar karta hoo | |
| Hokkien | Wa ai lu | |
| Hopi | Nu' umi unangwa'ta | American Indian |
| Hungarian | Szeretlek Szeretlek te'ged | |
| Icelandic | Eg elska thig | |
| Indi | Mai Tujhe Pyaar Kartha Ho | |
| Indian Meitei Language | Ei Nungbu Nungshi (I love You} Ei nungbu yamna nungshi (I love you a lot) | |
| Indonesian | Saya sayang padamu (Saya, commonly used) Saya cinta kamu (Aku is used more commonly among the younger generations) Aku sayang padamu Aku cinta kamu | |
| Iranian | Mahn doostaht doh-rahm | |
| Irish | taim i' ngra leat | |
| Italian | ti amo (if it's a relationship/lover/spouse) ti voglio bene (if it's a friend, or relative) | |
| Japanese | Kimi o ai shiteru Aishiteru Chuu shiteyo Ora omee no koto ga suki da Ore wa omae ga suki da Suitonnen Sukiyanen Sukiyo Watashi Wa Anata Ga Suki Desu Watashi Wa Anata Wo Aishithe Imasu Watakushi-wa anata-wo ai shimasu Suki desu (used at 1st time, like for a start, when you are not yet real lovers) | |
| Javanese | Kulo tresno | |
| Kalenjin | Achamin | |
| Kannada | Naanu Ninnanu Preethisuthene Naanu Ninnanu Mohisuthene | |
| Kiswahili | Nakupenda | |
| Korean | No-rul sarang hae (man to woman in casual relationship) Tangsinul sarang ha yo Tangshin-ul sarang hae-yo Tangsinul Sarang Ha Yo Tangshin-i cho-a-yo (i like you, in a romantic way) Nanun tangshinul sarang hamnida Nanun Dangsineul Mucheog Joahapnida Nanun Dangsineul Saranghapnida Nanun Gdaega Joa Nanun Gdaereul Saranghapnida Nanun Neoreul Saranghanda Gdaereul Hjanghan Naemaeum Alji Joahaeyo Saranghae Saranghaeyo Saranghapanida | |
| Kurdish | Ez te hezdikhem (?) | |
| Lao | Koi muk jao Khoi huk chau | |
| Latin | Te amo Vos amo (old) (Ego) amo te (ego, for emphasis) | |
| Latvian | Es milu tevi (Pronounced "Ess tevy meeloo") | |
| Lebanese | Bahibak | |
| Lingala | Nalingi yo | |
| Lisbon lingo | gramo-te bue', chavalinha | |
| Lithuanian | TAVE MYLIU (ta-ve mee-lyu) | |
| Lojban | mi do prami | |
| Luo | Aheri | |
| Macedonian | TE SAKAM! | |
| Madrid lingo | Me molas, tronca | |
| Malay/ Indonesian | Saya sayang padamu (Saya, commonly used) Saya cinta kamu (Aku is used more commonly among the younger generations) Aku sayang padamu Aku cinta kamu | |
| Malayalam | Njyaan Ninne' Preetikyunnu Njyaan Ninne' Mohikyunnu. Ngan Ninne Snaehikkunnu | |
| Malaysian | Saya Cintamu Saya Sayangmu Saya Cinta Kamu | |
| Mandarin | Wo ai ni (Wo3 ai4 ni3 in tonal notation) | Chinese |
| Marathi | me tujhashi prem karto (male to female) me tujhashi prem karte (female to male) Mi tuzya var prem karato | |
| Mohawk | Konoronhkwa | American Indian |
| Navaho | Ayor anosh'ni | American Indian |
| Ndebele | Niyakutanda | |
| Norwegian | Eg elskar deg (Nynorsk) Jeg elsker deg (Bokmaal) (pronouncedyai elske dai) | |
| Op Op | Lopveop Yopuop | |
| Pakistani | Mujhe Tumse Muhabbat Hai | |
| Persian | Tora dost daram | |
| Pig Latin | Ie Ovele Ouye | |
| Polish | Kocham Cie Ja cie kocham Yacha kocham Kocham Ciebie | |
| Portuguese | Amo-te (brazilian) Eu te amo | |
| Punjabi | Mai taunu pyar karda Main Tainu Pyar Karna | |
| Quenya | Tye-mela'ne | |
| Romanian | Te iu besc Te Ador | |
| Russian | Ya vas liubli Ya tebya liubliu Ya polubeel s'tebya (malincaya) Ya Tibieh Lublue | |
| Scot Gaelic | Tha gra\dh agam ort | |
| Serbian | Ya te volim "I love you" or Volim te "I love you" | |
| Serbocroatian | Volim te Ljubim te | |
| Shona | Ndinokuda | American Indian |
| Sinhalese | Mama oyata adarei | |
| Sioux | Techihhila | American Indian |
| Slovak | lubim ta | |
| Slovene | ljubim te | |
| Somali | kujali | |
| Spanish | Te amo | |
| Srilankan | Mama Oyata Arderyi | |
| Swahili | Naku penda (followed by the person's name) | |
| Swedish | Jag a"lskar dig | |
| Swiss - German | Ch'ha di ga"rn | |
| Syrian/ Lebanese | BHEBBEK (to a female) BHEBBAK (to a male) | |
| Tagalog | Mahal kita | Phillipines |
| Tahitian | Ua Here Vau Ia Oe | |
| Tamil | Ni yaanai kaadli karen (You love me) n^An unnaik kAthalikkinREn (I love you) Naan Unnai Kadalikiren | |
| Tcheque | MILUJI TE^ | |
| Telugu | Neenu ninnu pra'mistu'nnanu | |
| Telugu/ india | Nenu Ninnu Premistunnanu | |
| Thai | Phom Rak Khun (formal, male to female) Ch'an Rak Khun (formal, female to male) Khao Raak Thoe (affectionate, sweet, loving) Phom Rak Khun | |
| Tunisian | Ha eh bak * | |
| Turkish | Seni seviyo*rum (o* means o) Seni Seviyurum Seni Seviyorum | |
| Turkmen | Men seny soyarin | |
| Ukrainian | ja tebe koKHAju (real true love) ja vas koKHAju ja pokoKHAv tebe ja pokoKHAv vas | |
| Urdu | Mujhe tumse mohabbat hai Main Tumse Muhabbat Karta Hoon | |
| Uzbek | Man seni sevaman | |
| Vietnamese | Em ye^u anh (woman to man) Toi yeu em Anh ye^u em (man to woman) | |
| Vlaams | Ik hou van je Ik zie je graag | |
| Welsh | 'Rwy'n dy garu di. Yr wyf i yn dy garu di (chwi) | |
| Yiddish | Ich libe dich Ich han dich lib Ikh Hob Dikh Lib | |
| Yugoslavian | Ja te volim | |
| Zazi | Ezhele hezdege (sp?) | |
| Zulu | Mena Tanda Wena Ngiyakuthanda! Tom ho' ichema | |
Adopted from http://loveisgreat.com/ABOUT_LOVE/I_love
“Have you ever been in love? Horrible isn’t it? It makes you so vulnerable. It opens your chest and it opens up your heart and it means that someone can get inside you and mess you up. You build up all these defenses, you build up a whole suit of armor, so that nothing can hurt you, then one stupid person, no different from any other stupid person, wanders into your stupid life…You give them a piece of you. They didn’t ask for it. They did something dumb one day, like kiss you or smile at you, and then your life isn’t your own anymore. Love takes hostages. It gets inside you. It eats you out and leaves you crying in the darkness, so simple a phrase like ‘maybe we should be just friends’ turns into a glass splinter working its way into your heart. It hurts. Not just in the imagination. Not just in the mind. It’s a soul-hurt, a real gets-inside-you-and-rips-you-apart pain. I hate love.”
Quote from Neil Gaiman
Quote from Neil Gaiman
The Hanged Man reminds us that the best approach to a problem is not always the most obvious. When we most want to force our will on someone, that is when we should release. When we most want to have our own way, that is when we should sacrifice. When we most want to act, that is when we should wait. The irony is that by making these contradictory moves, we find what we are looking for. For a full description of your card and other goodies, please visit LearnTarot.com |
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I am The Hanged ManStress symptoms: Effects on your body, feelings and behavior
Stress symptoms often mimic symptoms of other problems. You may think illness is to blame for that nagging headache, your frequent forgetfulness or your decreased productivity at work. But the common denominator may be stress. Indeed, stress symptoms can affect your body, your thoughts and feelings, and your behavior. Stress may be affecting your health, and you may not even realize it. Recognize common stress symptoms — then take steps to manage them.
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Adopted from http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/stress-s
| Your True Love Is a Capricorn |
 Hard working and driven, a Capricorn will work overtime to win your heart. Be prepared to get wined and dined, even once you're convince that your Capricorn is the one! Why a Capricorn will love you: You don't rush things. You know it will take a while for a Capricorn to trust you, and you can wait. Social and outgoing, you can introduce normally shy Capricorn to a great circle of friends. |
